Real woman

A Woman! am proud being a woman.(thank you God!

2009-04-17T07:18:00.000-07:00

I often warn women who are contemplating marriage tomarry someone who can take care of them. When a womanmarries, it ought to be to someone who is capable of takingher to the next level. If she comes from poverty, there isno reason for her to get married and still be impoverished.The role of the man is to take her to another place.When she gets married, she ought to dress better,drive better, live better, and eat better, not constantlybe in a struggle over where her next meal is coming from.

My grandmother used to say, 'I can do badly all bymyself'.For a woman desiring a mate, the objective, of course,would be to find a Christian man, who's settled, hasgoals, accomplishments and a job.But a goal-oriented and focused man can't just beapproached any kind of way. So the woman who seeks thistype of stability must make sure that she stands out abovethe crowd:
1. Make sure your relationship with the Lord is strongand growing.
2. Make sure that you are presentable. Working fromthe inside out, yourpresentation should be representative of both who youare and whom you seek.Appearance is a reflection of how you see yourself.
3. Have the ability to hold an intelligentconversation.
4. And most importantly, allow the Holy Ghost to takecontrol. You don't need to go after him.

He's going to come afteryou, because after he sees and smells you and knows that you're in his presence, he's going to want to know who you are! I know there's somebody reading this who has been chasing after the 'man of your dreams,' but God says, 'Just sit still and allow patience to have her perfect work through Me.’

Furthermore, it's never a good idea to be too forward and too aggressive.Attempting to win a man's affection by jumping into bed with him will only backfire and cause him to lose interest in ever developing a lasting relationship. It causes him to lose respect for you and question your character. However, if he sees that you are dressed with quality, that you smell like you are somebody, that you look like you're doing fine without him, then that will attract the right attention from him.

He'll have no choice but to give you his attention. Stop looking so needy, climbing into bed, trying in vain to capture a man's heart.God woke me up in the middle of the night and said, 'The same thing that Naomi told Ruth to do is the same thing that I want them to do for me.'God is so sick of saints coming to Him trying to get a quickie and never romancing Him for Who he is - going to church screaming, shouting and hollering, but hadn't been intimate with God all week long! Stop trying to treat God like a sugar daddy and start romancing Him with worship and praise: 'I'm yoursLord...everything I've got...everything I'm not!'

The God we serve, which is the God of love, demands and requires of us foreplay before He gives us what we need. In the book of Ruth, the mother-in-law tells Ruth, 'You have to wash.'John 15:3 reminds us, Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you. When you sit in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you are taking a shower. When you hear the unadulterated Word of God, then the dirt and grime that you've accumulated all week long begins to wash off of you.Ask God to 'create in you a clean heart and renew a right spirit.' Stand in the word.

Then wait upon the Lord to renew your strength.Pass this on to those who have found or are seeking Mr. Right. This message is not directed at the receiver, it is directed to women I know that touch other young women that can benefit from this information. We are to be Naomi's of the world today. Our young women need to be informed of how to catch and keep a man that will respect them.

AM HUMBLED!

2009-02-27T00:13:00.000-08:00

Eeeeeeeeeh!as i look at creation, my goodness they can preach!
have you ever thought that only creation can preach to you more than pple around we have called pastors?just creation,just that!
i have learnt to value others as they are,coz next ,,,,,,,i may not know what will happen-regrets pains,when the thing is gone.My shoes fits nme and am glad that i am who i am,,,so unique that nobody can fit in my shoe n feel the way i do.its not that am happy where i am now,ifact if there is one who need to grow i am the one!
One point in time thought that i was there when i was so far..........thought i knew who God was.............mmmmh! i do need another touch n revival in me that ever before.sometime could think where is the power and desire i once had?.....does God let it just for a time,season? BUT i blive GOD want us to enjoy him to the fullest,.sumtym you defenitly know that yeah i have his presence.....you can enjoy him,,,,,,,,,,,,sumtym feel so dry that you just cant worship neither pray

My relationship

2009-01-19T06:26:00.000-08:00

Oh~! didnt tell you?
am inlove with this guy that am loving day by day,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,guess?,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,its ok,i will tell you coz you my guess wrongly for me, i will tell you ,,,,,,,,,,his name is
caswell chikondi mkanda vs chisomo ipyana chisenga kalua (funny....chiko`~chiso)
abale love is good and to be found with the right man or woman it takes Grace of GOD,,,,grace been in-love>>>>chisomo mchikondi.Patience helps had to wait for 4yrs after my 1st r/ship,it wasnt easy but it pays.
i thought i kne what love was eeeh! guys everyday its sweet and new,though stambling block are always there and some bumps BUT its possible to talk and move on.
love this song that ethel kamwendo banda sung-~pamene okondana akumana adani samakhalapo amachita manyazi amasowa choyankhula koma pamene mwayambana amabwera kukamba izi ndi izo cholinga musagwilizane.tichenjere pamene ena atiwuza nkhani zokhuzana ndiwokondedwa athu,zili ndi ife kutengela/kumvera KOMA ngati Mulungu wawona kuti chikondicho ndi chowona ngakhale mukambe zowaipisa iwowo sangalekane,-koma ngati wawona kuti ndichaboza ngakhale musakambe nkhani chikondicho chikhoza kutha.
meaning
when loved ones have met,enemies wont be there they are shy/afraid but when you have disagreed they will come and talk -talk so that you should part ways.we need to be careful with those kind of people who seems to love you but inside them there is evil, STILL its up to us to believe them /leave them BUT wheen God sees that you love each other (am telling you) even if they talk & talk your love wont be shaken but when its fake love even if they dont speak it (mvambushi)it ends!
am a testimony am telling you GOOD THINGS DOESNT COME EASY,love is based on trust,share your past and move on,know your freinds and whom to confide!ther are people who doesnt want the best for you but they still call themselve freind.

Trust GOD am telling you who give you PEACE that surpass the understanding of man.proverbs 29:25,never be concenerd with wat peolpe think about you as long as you trust GOD,coz the heart is so deceitful who can know it but GOD knows it,hebrews 4:12-13 every work of man lays bare before the LORD & uncovered.jeremiah 17:9,psalms 139:1-7&23-24

May GOD speak to you and reveal himself in your,if you have a desire psalms 20,will grant you the desire of your heart,jere33:3-5 if u seek him you will find him.tell him to show you hidden things/thing you want to know He will,am a testimony!
My GOD has never failed me and he will not, trust Him.

About my work,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

2009-01-19T05:19:00.001-08:00

My 1st work had to work as a sales representantive after my msce (dont wanna talk about it,gosh!)and had to persue Accounting at m c a,(dads footstep& am proud but has wronged to be an Economist.

2nd worked as Producer/presenter at TWR something i enjoyed and has passion for interm of ministry wise,i found grace coz never had an idea about mass/media communication but by grace there i was presenting programs.
if you are to ask me what i loved so much,,,,,,i would say time with kids AAH! Kids are fun am telling you(laughing) so fun,and they have a certain uniqueness so to say. it has taught me work,to be myself,communication skills (behind audience),timing,patience,e.t.c.
then comes nkhomalilo ya mau (35min preaching/teaching) lunch time and time just for music hahahahahaha Worship worship is great am telling you,lve being in his presence reflecting his Glory,Beauty ALL that HE IS! thats all.i will alway go back if chances arise coz i look at it not only as work but a ministry....WORSHIP him all you people and let everything that has brearth PRAISE HIM!
will never forget rejoice(you encourage me that i can),victor-a teacher and collegue roda-helped one-another and amai nkhoma God bless you,not forgetting a father Mr P Semphere

3rd worked with British council/Theatre for a Change as a Facilitator,,,,oh my goodness it was also to do with kids and enjoyed to an extent that i could forget my professional.every work has its goodness & badness,bringing a change in my life and life of others that was enough for me,but hate to be taken for granted.there is so much that i have learnt at tfac that applies to my life and have also made a change to the people around me,that am proud of.
it has taught me work,facillitation skills,building my confidence,making presentation before audience,skills in drama/theatre (am good in acting now)report writting and always to assess myself after the day and connection of activities with real life,hated other right and,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
will not forget Neema-mother,gheneli-sista,eric-gud freind

and also worked with CDC/Unicef as enumerator,taught me to be committed and hard working honestly it wasnt easy by the grace once survived from motorist accident had slight injury, telling you i saw GOD delivering me,as part of travelling i loved it coz i had to travel to areas that once didnt know,&being my hobby enjoyed it so much,invite me you will see.
will not forget anandi,lawrence

4th found myself at NICE as Finance & Admin, was quite challenging but there i was three months contract,doing my career in accounts-practical.met mothers,dads and freinds good combination
will not forget Mr Chagoma-father,Mrs mungomo-mazer,kho,roose,ndilowe,do,vit

5th worked with Bon Voyage Tour Ltd as Accountant,good(bon) environment,MD,three ladies and a male as crazy.good interlaction at home and pple you can trust for support,
taught work as my career and managirial decision

tied kaye C U later!!!!

what love is?

2009-01-19T04:52:00.000-08:00

Everytime i hear the word LOVE! reminds me of GOD,(out-of love he gave His ONE & ONLY Son JESUS CHRIST for our life.

sometyms i assume(honestly) if it was me i wouldnt give ma only 4 the sin of many BUT He did it!its amazing and when i sumtime think of it aaahaah! it surpass love.

good!

Love is GOD,is 1 corithian 13:1-8,1john 4:18,eph5:22-33,mark12:30-31,john15:13......e.t.c ,it consider others better than oneself.

The question is DO YOU REALY LOVE THOSE AROUND YOU?as the word says?

DO YOU LOVE THOSE YOU KNOW IT WILL BE GIVEN ONTO YOU BACK/THOSE WHO CANT PAY BACK?

i searched myself and i have failed,i once loved those who meant so much to me,failed to love as GOD command,pple around me,those have wronged me!!!!!I want Christ to teach me to love onces again.

Becareful Ladies

2009-01-07T06:26:00.000-08:00

There are women who will make your life miserable if you allow them to. There are women who will go behind your back to report on you, talk about and say bad things about you. There are also women who want what you have: your job, your confidence, your peace and joy - and your husband/boyfriend! One truth in life is that even if drawn together by the same faith, community or interests, not every woman can be your true friend. There are those who will look at you from head to toe and find a fault to pick on. Then there are those who want to be you (not realizing that you have your own insecurities). There are those who want to know where you shop just so they can rate your class and how far up the ladder they are. Then of course, there are those who secretly want your boyfriend or husband. A true friend would never compete with you. In fact, when life beats you up so hard that you can't dream, she dreams for you. When you can't afford a trip out of town, she pays for your ticket. If you introduce her to a male friend, she will ask you a hundred times if you like the guy before she shows any interest. She would never date your ex because when he became a jerk to you, he might as well have become a jerk to her as well, never mind who was at fault. I have found that it is necessary to find female friends (and become one as well) with whom you connect deeply. Women who are confident in who they are without being arrogant. Women who know that there is more to life than who is dating who and who bought what from where.